One of things that pisses me off the most about the Polanski apologists is the argument that some of them have made that it's somehow less of a crime because the 13 year old girl wasn't a virgin or was familiar with drugs and alcohol. Like she couldn't have been raped, she already had sex and has 'loose morals' or whatever. So what. These are things that don't matter, shouldn't matter. No means no and rape is rape.